Feelings About Music for Weddings and Parties

by Robbie Schlosser · 2 comments

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Feelings about music dominate many of my business conversations.  

Feelings are how music conveys meaning, how music does its magic.

What do I mean?  Let me tell you a story.  Here we are, entertaining at a casual cocktail party in Morgan Hill.  Thanks to Jordan River Productions for the nice photo.

Magnolia Jazz Band in Morgan Hill, 2009

Nearly every day I help people select music for their weddings and parties.

If I do my job right, their choices reflect their feelings about music.  I frequently write about feelings in music, because they’re the foundation for what I love and how I make a living.

Before the band entertains at any party, I discuss with the host what music will set the perfect mood.  For the entire event, as well as for the special landmarks — welcomes, toasts, announcements, awards, entrance of guests of honor, farewells, etc.

These conversations always focus on their feelings about music.  Although we always discuss the same topic, it’s a different conversation with each bride or party planner.

You might think this could become tedious, day after day, but it doesn’t.

To stay fresh, I regularly change my routine for a day or two, to renew my perspective.  For example, I recently took a day off to attend a conference about helping people cope with disease.  Patients as well as care-givers.

Not a very sexy topic, I agree, but something I believe ALL of us need to care about.  After all, we all have loved ones who occasionally get sick.  How can we help them?

Although all the presentations were interesting, I found myself far more interested in the ones about healing the spirit, in addition to healing the body.  My favorite presentation was titled “Living With Uncertainty”.

Why my favorite?  I think because this presentation addressed the person’s feelings head-on.  Whether patient or care-giver, it’s surprising how much healing depends on how the patient feels about their uncertain situation.

It was my favorite presentation because I find the same thing when I help people plan music for their weddings and parties.  Whatever the occasion will be — a formal banquet, a business reception, or a casual get-together — it’s always the same.

When our conversations about music finally become successful, we’ll be discussing their feelings about music — a favorite song, or songs associated with special memories, or ones popularized by their favorite artists, or ones with especially appropriate titles or lyrics.

So here’s a tip:  when you’re selecting special music for your next event, rely on your feelings about music.  They’re ultimately your best guide.

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Meanwhile, the Magnolia Jazz Band entertains at weddings and parties throughout the San Francisco Bay Area. If you are ever nearby, you’ll love catching us in action, seeing and hearing us create a great mood.

How can I help you? Call 408-245-9120 or use Robbie@MagnoliaJazz.com. Planning a celebration? Ask about our availability.

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Hey..Robbie I generally follow your all blogs even I bookmarked your site too. I didn’t comment every time, but when I got something different which I expect from the title of the blog. I know music is soul of any wedding and through your I got many new ideas here..

Samuel T. Cummins

Very intriguing indeed. I learned a lot of stuff today and it’s all thanks to you Robbie.Good feelingful music can definitely make any special occasion a memorable one.
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